In this video Joel Uili explores how we lose ourselves when we let the fear of judgment hold us back – aka, ‘The Reverse Transformation’.
Restraining yourself because of the watchful eyes of others can cause you to cocoon yourself in somewhat of a reverse transformation – your wings, belittlement and decay.
I’m sure we have lost many to reverse transformation. External judgement holding them still, paralysed, almost as if they’re held at gunpoint. Perhaps they took a fragile step forward once only to be scorned. Their self-expression bloomed until the clouds rolled in. ‘How dare you try’ people say in a variety of ways. They prefer the ordinary and riskless, so those who are scorned inevitably retreat.
You shouldn’t be burdened by the correctness of behaviour or controlled by the whispers of judgement – let them critique you but don’t allow those critiques to set inside of you. You’ll be made heavy and crushed from from the weight of giving up what you wanted. Dreams are always the first part of someone that turns to dust when they’ve given up.
How does someone reverse a Reverse Transformation? They take themselves back. If those around you will not help you then they are in your way. Maybe one day they’ll understand but that is their lesson to learn, not yours to teach. Whether they validate your path, ignore it or mock it, it matters little. This is not about them, this is about you.
No more tentative steps, step tenaciously. Let them judge the unrestraint – the freedom of wind and wings will feel to good for it to matter.
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